X = The Over|Sexualizaton Of A Nation
How Porn Hijacked a Generation Produced|Created By The Chi Code
Article written By |Brandon Xopher|
Being exposed to sex at a young age changed everything for me.
I wasn’t only molested once but twice, and it completely changed the way I interacted with other kids, specifically females. While others boys were busy ignoring girls out of the fear of cooties, I was wondering what they smelled liked, what they tasted like, when I would feel that feeling again, that touch that I wasn’t suppose to even know yet. A level of intimacy some adults aren’t even mature enough to handle, had my mind and body trapped in a place I had no idea how to navigate out of, and then came the third attempt.
My introduction to porn was in the third grade, an older adult considered to be a family friend made his move, I was of course unaware of what it meant for an adult male to pop a porn in and watch it with a child. I didn’t understand what being primed meant, but looking back perhaps I did, because I stole that tape and put it in a place in my room one could hardly call a hiding spot. My mom found it, and I didn’t hesitate to tell her where I got it from or that I stole it, but my mom knew neither one of these things was the issue. What was a grown man doing watching porn with a child? The third attempt was a failure but it was already too late, the damage had been done. I couldn’t unsee or unfeel what porn had brought to my mind and my body. What I had been searching for but couldn’t possibly get from adolescent girls. Porn became the “fix” and an addiction that would eventually help me grow and become a better version of myself, but not before I had to battle the consequences of the addiction.
A battle so many of us have had to face alone because we couldn’t or wouldn’t ask for help out of fear of shame, guilt and embarrassment.
Porn broke me but it also was one of the catalyst for helping build me back up again. It lead me to respect women more by not sexually objectifying them, something this society, specifically social media trains and teaches them to do to themselves as well. It lead me to respect myself more, my mind more, my body more, to love myself more.
9 years Celibate,and many years removed from porn, I finally feel like I’ve healed my inner-child from a mental and physical trauma I wouldn’t wish on anyone’s worse enemy.
and yet….
Its every where, TV, sports, commercials, movies, streaming, magazines, and social media has become the catalyst leading an entire generation of young girls and boys down a rode that’s hard to recover from.
Should we be considering that there is a new form of sexual molestation in existence now?
The most dangerous type that’s ever existed, because its socially acceptable just for likes, comments, subscribes,and content monetization! These video stay on the internet forever! Videos and content made by individuals not even deemed mature or old enough to drive cars, vote in elections or legally poison themselves to death with alcohol.
Is it okay to portray children having sex, doing drugs and abusing alcohol in mainstream media just because the actor playing the role is over 18? Is this form of logic not questionably terrifying in our society?
I call this the American Pie Era, there were droves of movies and TV shows that helped shape what it meant to be a middle school kid on its way to high school and what that high school experience was suppose to entail. An entire generation molested into believing it was not just okay to be molested but a normal part of the experience of becoming an adult heading into University life.
And so I shared a little of my experience, not the full details, but enough to get the point across, and that point being awareness of the situation, because its gotten far out of hand and this was before the Tiktok era; that makes the Me Too movement look like a girls scout campfire tale!
I mean the adults that are suppose to be protecting the child are in the videos with them in some cases. Somethings are just not meant to be normalized and this is most definitely one of those somethings!
[GET FIT NATION]
I LEAVE YOU WITH THE CONTENT THAT INSPIRED ME TO WRITE THIS ARTICLE.
A VIDEO THAT SO BEAUTIFULLY AND THOUGHT PROVOKINGLY SHEDS LIGHT ON THE LOW-VIBRATIONAL SITUATION OUR SOCIETY IS FACING IN THIS PRESENT MOMENT!
[LOVE|PEACE|HIGH-VIBRATIONS]